“YOU DON’T STAND A CHANCE.”

I read somewhere that you can be the brightest and prettiest shade of yellow, and you still wouldn’t be it for someone whose favourite colour is green.

Now, what does that make you? Unattractive? Silly? Wrong? Inadequate? Not good enough?

Nah. It only means you’re not what they’re looking for, and that is completely fine.

We do this thing where we pin our self worth to someone’s standard, approval, or even the mere feedback of failure or success. And like I always say, that is a very wrong well to measure one’s worth.

I was talking to a friend today, she’s suffering heartbreak, and while consoling her, I think I might’ve slipped a “you don’t stand a chance.” But I didn’t mean it in a literal sense. I meant it as, if someone was to walk away from the divine being that you are, it is simply because you’re not it for them, and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Dearest reader, everything is a feedback. Not everything is a rejection. Sometimes, it’s just life redirecting you. Sometimes, it’s God saving you from forcing what was never meant to stay. So if someone doesn’t choose you, don’t shrink yourself to become their type. Don’t beg to be loved correctly.

Because the truth is, when you meet the person who truly sees you, you won’t have to prove anything.

And that’s why I said it.

You don’t stand a chance… with the wrong person. 

@favvy_Okwans🖤.