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"If you walk into a wrong room, don't rearrange the furniture, just leave." ~ X

Just leave!!!

This isn't even about a room sef, it's about the substandard things we allow in our lives. My best friend Lee would always say, don't romance with what doesn't feel right to you, because if you hang around it for too long, you'll begin to adjust to it. And that's how it usually starts. Something feels off at first, your spirit even tells you "this thing no pure", but you stay. Small small, what once looked strange begins to look normal.

Don't manage what doesn't align with your values. Just run. Take the quickest exit so you don't end up trying to fix what was never your responsibility to fix in the first place.

The funny thing is that there are things you shouldn't even attempt to fix. Trying to fix them will only ruin you. Not everything broken is your assignment. Some rooms are simply wrong for you, and the wisest thing you can do is walk out with your sanity intact.

It takes great strength to walk away what settings that do not reflect your values, It is choosing yourself and your sanity over the pressure to stay and endure nonsense. And honestly, not every battle deserves your energy. 

Dearest reader, if something consistently feels wrong, uncomfortable, or beneath the standards you hold for your life, you don't need a long debate with yourself. 

 Tjhere is no medal for staying in the wrong room. Sometimes the bravest and wisest thing you can do is quietly pick yourself up and leave.

@favvy_Okwans🖤.