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There comes a time in one’s life when you come to the shocking realisation that nobody is coming to save you.

And the funny thing is, you have always known this. It has always been somewhere in your head as a fact. But it was theoretical. Just something you could quote and nod to. Then life shows you a shade and you’re like “damn” because see how quickly that theory is turning into reality.

Life happens. Every single day. Good days. Bad days. Confusing days. Days you want to disappear small. And the crazy thing is, no matter how bad it gets, you will survive. Somehow, you always do.

That issue you are stressing over right now? You will get past it. You will look back one day and almost laugh at how it kept you up at night. And somehow, in the very dramatic way life works, you might even land yourself in a much messier mess. Because growth does not retire. It keeps stretching you.

Like the words I used to end my fresher’s welcome spoken word piece, “Growth is not comfortable, dreams do not come wrapped in softness.” And I meant every word.

Growth will press you. Dreams will demand from you. Life will not always handle you gently. But you will survive it. You always have.

Dearest reader, when it gets hard, remember this. Even though no one is coming to save you, you will survive. You will get past this. This too will fade away. If not for anything, hold on to the simple truth that God has got your back.

So chill. Breathe. You will be alright, okay?



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