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​Not every word applies to you…


So I have this friend, Ava. She was given a piece of advice—great advice, I tell you. It sounded perfect, almost too perfect. However, the moment she acted on it, everything backfired. It landed her in trouble so deep that she regretted the decision instantly.


Now, what really happened?


The advice wasn’t wrong, but it wasn’t right for Ava. And that’s the part many of us ignore. Just because something worked beautifully for Mr. A doesn’t make it a universal law for everyone else. Half the time, what you see is only the tip of the iceberg. There are invisible factors backing Mr. A—timing, temperament, resources, connections, grace—elements you may never know.


This is why discernment matters. Wisdom isn’t just about collecting advice; it’s about knowing what fits you, your journey, your capacity, and your season. The wrong advice taken at the wrong time can become a burden, even when it came from the right place. Not every instruction is your instruction, and not every path is yours to walk.


So before you take that step, pause. Weigh it. Pray about it. Consider your reality honestly. What aligns with who you are will strengthen you; what doesn’t will stretch you in painful ways.


 Dearest reader, always remember: your journey is uniquely yours. And it’s okay to let go of what isn’t meant for you, no matter how good it looks on someone else.




@favvy_Okwans🖤.

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