CHRONICLES OF LADY AVA: The Disservice Done to Girls with Big Boobs

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So recently, Ava and I went bra shopping. Madam was being extremely picky, so we ended up spending hours at the market, all in search of the perfect bra, something comfortable and flattering.

At some point, Ava got visibly upset. She was frustrated that the bigger sizes were not only twice the price of the smaller ones, but also ugly. Initially, I thought she was just being dramatic, like she always is. But the moment I said that, she got even more annoyed.

She turned to me and said, “The fact that we don’t recognize, call out, or even acknowledge the great disservice and discrimination against girls with big boobs is infuriating!”

And honestly, that hit me.

Because truly, no one talks about it. We’ve learned to wear our discomfort like an ill-fitted cape and laugh it off like it’s nothing. But it is something.

As someone with a body type similar to Ava’s, I completely understand her frustration. I’ve just gotten so used to the struggle that I now treat it like a joke. But really, why is it so easy for girls with small boobs to find bras that fit, while it’s such a hassle for those with larger ones?

Ava concluded that the bra industry is, in some way, biased against girls with big boobs. At first, I wasn't sure, but being the curious person I am, I did a bit of digging.

And here’s what I discovered: Most large-size bras are designed for plus-size women. So if you’re not plus-sized but have large boobs, the bras often don’t fit well. They might dig into your skin, offer poor support, or just feel off. It’s like your body doesn’t belong in the sizing system they’ve created.

So yes, I have to agree with Lady Ava on this one. It truly is a disservice to girls who are simply trying to feel comfortable and confident in their own skin.

There was a time in my life when I absolutely hated having big boobs, not because of the attention, but because of the discomfort. The constant battle to find a bra that fit right made me resent a part of my body I should have embraced.

And that’s the real issue, how something as basic as underwear can shape how we feel about our bodies. It’s not just about fashion or aesthetics. It’s about dignity, comfort, and confidence.

When industries fail to create products that serve all body types equally, they reinforce silent biases. They send a message about whose bodies are “standard” and whose are inconvenient. But bodies aren’t one-size-fits-all, and neither should the systems that cater to them be.

This is not just a rant from Lady Ava or another dramatic shopping experience. It’s a real conversation about representation, inclusion, and the need to rethink how we design for real people.

Because comfort should never be a luxury. It should be the bare minimum.

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