WE ARE ALL MATERIALISTIC




"Whatsoever you pay attention to gains dominance in your life" — PVO

What comes to your mind when you hear the word materialistic?

Do you think it’s someone who chases after material things and all? Well, me too. I used to see materialism as a big taboo—a problem only for the rich.

However, during a meeting I attended in the second week of January, I learned that materialism isn’t just about lusting after material things. Instead, it’s about allowing the things we own to own us—that is, giving them a sort of control over us.

Now, imagine you own a car, and you love this car so much that you don’t want anything to happen to it. Over time, it becomes an obsession. The car starts to dominate and control your life because you’re scared to lose it. Possessing such love for a material thing, something so fleeting, is what it means to be materialistic.

My coach would always tell me that I’m an idol worshipper. It’s funny and true, because I tend to love people so much that I could practically worship the ground they walk on.

Learning this new perspective on what it means to be materialistic made me realize that, indeed, I was materialistic. In fact, we all are. If we take a closer look, you’d be surprised at the kind of attention we give to unworthy causes or how we allow silly things to dominate our lives.

Dearest reader, like Pastor Victor said, materialism is a heart condition that affects both the rich and the poor. It goes beyond a love for material things; it is rooted in the state of one’s heart.

Set your heart right, and watch what you give attention to!


@favvy_Okwansđź–¤. 

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