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Proverbs 26:18-19 ICB
[18-19] A person shouldn’t trick his neighbor and then say, “I was just joking!” That is like a madman shooting deadly, burning arrows.

All my fellow tricksters, oya, let's gather here. I'm not the one that said it oo, it's King Solomon, and we know that guy is a fountain of wisdom.

You might be thinking, what's there in a harmless joke? Me too. I guess we should probably go and wake saga Solomon from his grave and ask him to explain, but I'm sure his skeleton has probably decayed and turned into fossil fuel.

However, I present to you (dramatic sounds) the Hebrew perspective to it:
The Hebrew word for "trick" here is rama, which carries the connotation of deceit, betrayal, or misleading someone intentionally. It isn’t about innocent humor but deliberate actions that hurt others under the guise of a joke. The analogy of a madman shooting deadly arrows reveals the recklessness of such behavior. In essence, it warns against using humor as a weapon, a tool for harm, or an excuse to dismiss the consequences of one’s actions.

Now let's sit back and think, think about situations where people laugh off hurtful comments by saying, "I was just joking." Whether it’s teasing a friend about their insecurities, spreading rumors disguised as humor, or downplaying harmful pranks, the impact is often deeper than we realize. Words, like arrows, cannot be taken back once released. And while we may not see the wounds immediately, they can leave lasting scars on relationships and trust.

Dearest reader, humor is a gift, but when used carelessly, it becomes a weapon. Let’s be intentional about building others up rather than tearing them down. Before you crack a joke, ask yourself: Will this bring joy, or will it harm? Be a light with your words, not a source of pain.

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Merry Tuesday!
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