Guard Your Words

When you are angry, that's the least time you should talk.

I grew up hating myself, despising who I was so deeply that I even attempted suicide more than once. Why? Words!

As a sensitive child, I was hurt by the simplest remarks. A joke that others brushed off often left me crying myself to sleep. How did this happen? Words!

Words are far more powerful than we give them credit for. King Solomon wasn’t exaggerating when he said, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit” (Proverbs 18:21).

We often say things we don’t mean, but once spoken, words can’t be taken back. The damage is done. That’s why I tend to stay silent when I’m upset.

Here’s what King Solomon also says about giving full vent to our anger: “Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end” (Proverbs 29:11).

In the words of Pastor Kelly, "Words have power, so when you open your mouth to speak, make sure it’s healthy."

Dearest reader, what comes out of your mouth, even in anger, does it bring healing? Being upset is no excuse to say something so hurtful it could scar someone for a lifetime. I’ve heard of people who took their lives because of thoughtless words.

Let’s strive to speak thoughtfully, so that our words bring healing, not harm.

And for those who dismiss hurtful words as “just a joke,” here’s what the Bible says: “Like a maniac shooting flaming arrows of death is one who deceives their neighbor and says, ‘I was only joking!’” (Proverbs 26:18-19).

Shema!

@favvy_Okwans🖤