EVEN THOUGH, REGARDLESS UPON STILL.

 

Do you know that feeling when you're so tired, but you know the next day will be even worse? Do you often feel exhausted in advance, already worn out by the anticipation of what’s coming? I’m sure I'm not the only one who feels this way, especially when the next day is set to be busy or intense.

I got home really tired today. Ideally, I should be excited because tomorrow is my day off. But knowing that tomorrow won’t be a rest day at all? That's tough. My schedule is so packed that I’ll barely have time to breathe. Mondays are exhausting, but tomorrow’s going to be on another level.


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On a different note, I came across an interesting quote the other day: "Any man can love you, but will that love remain on the days you're difficult to love?"

Love is an emotion, and emotions are often temporary. That’s why people say love alone is never enough. We all have those days when we're difficult to love—days when we’re stubborn, annoying, when our flaws surface, and we reveal parts of ourselves we’d rather keep hidden. Days when we’re simply exhausted, like I am now, which ends up giving the people around us and the people who care about you a hard time. 

But my heart goes out to those who, even when we’re a mess, still show up with love. They might let us know we’re being difficult, but they love us regardless. It’s priceless to be cared for and valued, especially when we’re not at our best.

It’s one thing to love someone; it’s something else entirely to love them through their mess. Trust me, I know what I'm talking about. I can be tough to love on my messy days, but on my good days, I'm a total sweetheart.

Dearest reader, Loving is easy—it’s an emotion we all feel. But to love someone "even though, regardless, upon," that’s something extraordinary. Let’s not just love the good in people; let’s embrace the baggage that comes with them.



@favvy_Okwansđź–¤


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