INTENTIONALLY LETTING GO.

"If you give what you want, you position yourself to get it" Mr Pojomatics. 

If you want help, extend a helping hand
If you want to be loved, give all the love you've got. 

According to the Alan Watt backward rule which states that "The more you try and grab a hold of something, the more it slips through your fingers.” This explains that the less eager you are to achieve something the more it gravitates to you 

It sure doesn't make sense to give up what you want to get what you want but it is a principle the universe obeys. Even Jesus concurred in Matthew 10: 39 "If you cling to your life, you will lose it; but if you give up your life for me, you will find it."


Surely, if you deliberately give up something you want, it will find it way back to you. It is to intentionally let go so as to unintentionally let in. Most often the one who gives up what earnestly desire is seen as foolishness but in reality he does himself more good. 

To intentionally be the fool doesn't sit well with us because we do not consider the ripple effect. For instance, the persons who is quick to apologize and forgive is intentionally being a fool yet in relation to reality he is wisest given that not forgiving prevents God from forgiving us... "Forgive us our sins as we forgive does who sin against so".  


Intentionally letting go makes you the bigger person even as it gives you your desire on the long run. 


Conclusively, relax in that your pursuit, the desperate hardly attain what they eagerly sought after.


@favvy_Okwanđź–¤.

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